Praise God! One day our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, will come on the clouds and take the "Redeemed ones" (His Bride) to His Father's House in Heaven!
He is the way to Heaven! He is The Truth and The Life!
We can learn so....much from a Jewish Wedding!
Interesting Blogs and study material:
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Jewish Wedding
Jewish Wedding Traditions
Compared to the Relationship between Jesus Christ and his Bride the Church.
By I Gordon
The Bride of Christ and the Jewish Wedding Models
By Bill Salus
Jesus said...
John 14:6 "I am the way, the truth, and the life, No one comes to the Father except through Me.
Was always captivated by the thought that Jesus told His disciples(BRIDE OF CHRIST),
John 14 :1 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. 2 My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am."
I was amazed to learn as I did a further study that our Lord came to turn the "Hearts of Fathers to children and children to father."(Malachi last verse)!
Heaven is something that all of us who have received Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior to look forward to. We have a future and a blessed hope, and no matter how hard and difficult things get in this world, heaven is our final destination. Those who live in the modern world do not catch the full significance of Jesus' promise. This is due to the fact that in His promise Jesus was drawing an analogy from Jewish marriage customs in biblical times. Since this is so, those marriage customs must be examined if one is to grasp the significance of the promise.
That's a blessed hope!
Stay blessed,
Julia
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Experts from I Gordon's article:
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The Rapture and the Jewish Wedding Model...
By I Gordon
The initial stages of the Jewish Wedding Model
It was normally the father of the groom who would initiate the selection of the bride for his son by contacting the woman’s father. Genesis 24 contains a great example of this where Abraham sends his servant to find a bride for his son Isaac[2]. In like manner, the Father has sent the Holy Spirit to receive a bride for His son, the Lord Jesus. And those ‘in Christ’ has been chosen by God for this very purpose! (Eph 1:4)
But things don’t come cheap you know! The father of the bride would then ask what the groom was willing to pay for his bride. Using the example in Gen 24, we see that gifts were given to Rebekah and her family to pay this price (Gen 24:51-53), Jesus had to pay far more for us however! May we never get ‘used to’ what He did!
1 Peter 1:18 tells us of the price which Jesus was willing to pay for His bride. ‘For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed…but with the precious blood of Christ.
Once the bride to be had agreed to the marriage, a contract was written up which gave the responsibilities of each party and the agreed price to be paid. This process was usually completed by the drinking of wine from a shared cup. And even though the marriage ceremony was still to take place in the future, it was now a legal and binding marriage. This completed the ‘betrothal’ phase of the marriage. Now, I’m sure you understand the significance of this, but without wanting to insult your intelligence, let me spell it out anyway. The agreement that Jesus has with His bride is the ‘New Covenant’. At the last supper before going to the cross he spoke of this agreement and shared the cup of wine with His disciples.
Luke 22:19-20 ‘He took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way, after the supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you.’
Going to prepare a place:
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The groom would at this stage return to his father’s house to prepare a place for his bride and it could be up to a year later (or more if they were ‘betrothed’ as children) before he finally returned for his bride. This of course, is the very promise Jesus gave the Church when He said,
John 14:2-3 ‘In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.’
It was Paul’s concern that during this period, the bride would be faithful to her husband to be, as shown in 2 Cor 11:2 I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.
It is also why James would speak of spiritual ‘adultery’ towards God when the saints become worldly. (See James 4:3-6) It was then necessary for the bride to wait and to be ready for his return. Amid trumpets and celebration, the groom would then take his bride back to his father’s house where the wedding ceremony would proceed. This fantastic day is described to us in...
1 Thess 4:16-17, "For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.
Oh Yeah! Bring it on!!!
And that’s where things get interesting…
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Well, that’s not to say they haven’t been interesting yet! But I was fascinated to learn that after the ceremony back at the father’s house (which was only attended by a few select guests), there was a seven day feast period where the bride and groom would enter their bridal chamber. Now, if you know anything about Bible prophecy, you will probably have heard of a seven year period set aside at the end of the age called ‘the tribulation’ or ‘Daniel’s 70th week’ (Dan 9:20-27). In fitting with the Jewish wedding model, where the bride was taken back to the home of the groom and hidden in the bridal chamber (Hebrew: ‘chuppah’) for the seven day period, so shall it be with the Lord and the seven year period of tribulation that is to come. The Lord shall return for his bride, to hide her within the bridal chamber at His Father’s house, for that seven year period of wrath upon the earth.
The Huppah/Chuppah
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The second half of the ancient Jewish wedding ceremony, or huppah, is also called the “hometaking.” The original meaning of the huppah was “room” or “covering.”
The chuppah/huppah of ancient times was a special room built in the bridegroom’s father’s home.
The room was eventually replaced by a bridal canopy. The huppah symbolized the new home to which the bridegroom would take his bride. The bride and bridegroom were escorted to the bridal chamber where they would be alone for seven days. The spiritual parallel to the huppah for the bride of Christ begins as we are lifted up off the earth to be taken to our heavenly wedding chamber where we will spend ‘one week’ (seven years), with our Bridegroom/King. While the Bride of Christ is in the Bridal Chamber with Yeshua (Jesus), the rest of the world will be in a time of great tribulation.
An interesting prophecy which I believe relates to this time is in Isaiah 26:19-21“But your dead will live; their bodies will rise. You who dwell in the dust, wake up and shout for joy. Your dew is like the dew of the morning; the earth will give birth to her dead.
Verse 19 is a picture of the resurrection. ‘Your dead will live… their bodies will rise'. We know that at the return of Christ for His bride, there will be a resurrection for those that are alive will not go ahead of the believers in Christ who have died before He returns. No, the dead in Christ shall rise first and then the believers who are alive will be caught up to meet Jesus in the air! (1 Thes 4:17).
Go, my people, enter your rooms (literally: chamber as in KJV & NKJV) and shut the doors behind you; hide yourselves for a little while until his wrath has passed by.
Verse 20 states perfectly what the model of Jewish wedding shows. That is, after the resurrection at the return of Jesus, the bride then enters the bridal chamber. The reason for this time of protection, as stated in the verse above, is because God’s wrath is about to be poured out on the earth. Thank the Lord that we will never experience His wrath![6]
See, the LORD is coming out of his dwelling to punish the people of the earth for their sins. The earth will disclose the blood shed upon her; she will conceal her slain no longer
Finally, at the end of the seven years, the Lord will leave Heaven again as He returns to earth to judge its inhabitants. It is at this stage that the ‘day of vengeance’ is said to be in His heart. (See Isaiah 63:1-6) Then shall come the reign of Jesus on earth in fulfilment of all those who have prayed ‘thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.’
Time for another feast I think!
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While the wedding supper of the Lamb has taken place in Heaven[7], there is still a celebration and feast yet to be had in Jesus’ kingdom on earth. You see, the nation of Israel is to be remarried! Check out the footnote for more info.[8]
What a day that will be! A day when the saints of all ages are joined together in celebration of a mighty God… a mighty husband. A day when peace and joy shall reign and tears shall be no more. If I can say one last thing, it would be this – make sure you are there! It has been the plan of God from eternity past that He would have a wife. Don’t miss out on that. Today is the ‘day of salvation’ and God wills that none should perish. If you are a Christian already, then are you living for the Lord? The time is short and the night is coming when no man can work.
I say to you that many will come from the east and the west, and will take their places at the feast with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven. (Matt 8:11)
On this mountain the LORD Almighty will prepare a feast of rich food for all peoples, a banquet of aged wine— the best of meats and the finest of wines. On this mountain he will destroy the shroud that enfolds all peoples, the sheet that covers all nations; he will swallow up death forever. The Sovereign LORD will wipe away the tears from all faces; he will remove the disgrace of his people from all the earth. The LORD has spoken. (Isaiah 25:6-8)
“Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.” And he carried me away in the Spirit to a mountain great and high, and showed me the Holy City, Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God. It shone with the glory of God, and its brilliance was like that of a very precious jewel, like a jasper, clear as crystal. (Rev 21:9-11)
He who testifies to these things says, “Yes, I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus. (Rev 22:20)
(Just a quick comment… I’m not Jewish. So while I have tried to find out what I can concerning the Jewish marriage from their encyclopedias, I am in debt to other Jewish Messianic scholars such as Dr. Arnold Fruchtenbaum and Dr Renald Showers who know far more about their own culture than I ever would. In fact, Dr Renald Showers’ article touches on other aspects that this one doesn’t so you would do well to read through his article found here:
I also want to acknowledge Jerry Dart’s book ‘After the rapture’ as this has a very good chapter concerning the Jewish wedding and its prophetic implications and it has helped in my understanding on this topic. Also the commentaries of H.A Ironside and William Newel on the book of Revelation have helped.)
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| 1. The Beginning: The groom's father made and approved choice of the bride. | Christ is the bridegroom. Church is the bride. The Father makes and approves the choice. John the Baptist shows himself as bestman. | John 10:28 John 3:29 |
| 2. The Groom's Promise: a. Made a covenant or contract promise. b. Drink the cup of wine to seal the covenant. c. Groom pays a price to show he is serious. d. Groom's speech of promise to his bride that he would come to claim her soon. | God made a new covenant with Israel to replace one He made with Abraham. Jesus drank cup of redemption at Passover. Jesus paid the price for us on the cross. Jesus promises to come and take His bride, the church, away to be with Him. | Jeremiah 31:31 Matthew 26:27-29, 1 Corinthians 6:20 John 14:2-3 |
| 3. Groom Prepares a Place for His Bride: Groom prepares a bridal chamber where they stay for seven days. He works on it until it pleases his father. Then he may go after his bride. | Jesus tells us that He does not know when He will come; only His Father knows. We must be alert and ready! For, He is preparing our place now. Be alert: Don't worship idols. Be ready: Do all He asks while you're here. Develop an active prayer life. Offer yourself in ministry opportunity. Keep ourselves from doubt and failure. | Mark 13:32-33 |
| 4. The Bride Waits: While the groom builds the new home, the bride waits and wears a veil. This shows she belongs only to the groom. She prepares for her wedding by making blankets, etc. She also shows gratitude to her family for raising her and she mends hurt relationships. No matter what, she had to be ready because he would come at night. | We must do His will in our daily lives. We must be committed to our ministries at home and church. We must heal wounded relationships and express our agape love to each other. We must exhort! Jesus tells us that He will come like a thief. So, we must be living "His Love" at all times. The church, too, is veiled. The world is not sure who the church is. When we go, it will know. | 2 Corinthians 11:2 Luke 19:13 1 Corinthians 13:1 Luke 12:40 |
| 5. The Bridesmaids: Unmarried friends who attend the bride and provide light for the groom who comes at night. | We prepare the bride in our ministry to each other. We groom her. We must be ready in our service and not run out of power or conviction as the bridesmaids did. | Matthew 25:1-13 |
| 6. The Bridegroom Comes: The grooms'men would run ahead of the groom and shout that he was coming. While the father's head was turned, the groom would steal the bride. The wedding party then went back to the groom's house to meet the guests. | The angel, Gabriel, will blow the trumpet of God, and Jesus will come like a thief to snatch away His Bride. When we arrive in Heaven, a host of people will be waiting for us. | 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 |
| 7. The Bridal Chamber: The bride and groom enter the bridal chamber where the marriage is consummated. The party waits outside until the groom tells the best man that it is consummated. Then, the guests rejoice for 7 days. | As John the Baptist was filled with joy when he saw Jesus, so we too shall be filled when we join Jesus in the heavenly bridal chamber. Some liken those 7 days in the chamber to the 7 year tribulation period which we will spend not in agony on earth, but in bliss in heaven. Then we will return as the wife, not the Bride. | John 3:29 Revelation 19:7-8 |
| 8. Married Life Begins: New coup1e goes to the father's home to begin married life. | We too, will go to the Father's house for the Marriage Feast of The Lamb, then go with Christ in His reign in His kingdom here on earth for 1,000 years. | Revelation 20:16 |
